This was written from the younger son’s perspective….then aged TEN!… We raised them very close together and they had similar interests and hobbies which was GREAT in terms of Fionn socialsing!

you NEVER real know as a parent how you are balancing Yourself but it is good to waken up and ask…. Helen 

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10 pros and cons of living with a brother who has aspergers

Hi! I’m Caoilte. I am Fionn’s 10 year old brother and I have a few things to say.

 Pros

  1. Fionn says very random things that make me laugh uncontrollably! For example,if I am in the middle of a conversation Fionn might shout HIPPO CRISIS!
  2. When saying something, Fionn explains things VERY clearly! So clearly, in fact, you will never have to ask him ever again!
  3. When mum or dad do send Fionn up to clean the room, he does all of it…even my share!
  4. Fionn cheers me up a lot with his wacky sense of humour. He is really bad at idioms and we get loads of laughs at them!
  5. We sort of like the same comedy programmes, so we don’t argue much about what to watch.
  6. If i want to play football, he is always there to play with and he likes being in nets and i don’t so  that works well.
  7. Fionn gets on much more with everyone at sports – when he was younger if he had a problem at football with someone, I would help him sort it out.
  8. Fionn is never deliberately unkind to anyone, so he is always nice to me and all the family.
  9. He has finally stopped changing which team he supports during a match depending on who is winning – that used to drive me mad!
  10. Fionn is probably one of the funniest people i know in real life!

Cons

  1. i am expected a bit to be the older person, who does the sensible things all the time!
  2. when i am in the middle of listening to my music on my phone, the next thing you hear is either Fionn on the tin whistle, or Fionn on the cornet, or Fionn on the drums or Fionn on the piano. He can not walk past an instrument without stopping to play it.
  3. our bedroom is a mess – mainly thanks to Fionn. He is so disorganised. BUT i kinda get away with my bits of the mess cos the whole room is a mess.
  4. Fionn keeps stealing my favourite football tops and stretches them – especially my under-armours!
  5. He has a really weird sense of smell and smells drive him nuts that nobody else gets – like animal smells, breath, hair, agriculture…
  6. When i am still wide awake and want to chat to him, he will fall straight asleep…which is really weird cos Fionn used to have massive trouble falling asleep especially if we had music on with words in it!
  7. Scenes…he never stops quoting scenes from his favourite TV shows like AnchorMan, Father Ted or Mrs Brown’s Boys….over and over he repeats them. (actually sometimes i do join in!)
  8. Fionn when he is fidgetty, and I am tired, he wakens me up by making noises. He keeps a stash of books and stuff on his windowsill and i can hear him playing with it…with his reading light on!
  9. Cos Fionn loves creative writing, everyday when i have writing homework he keeps on shouting his ideas at me…when i want to think of my own.
  10. He can be lazy and doesn’t like walking to the shop…and I love to.

Overall he is a pretty nice guy!

His Aspergers makes him really funny – and he knows it.

I like having a brother with aspergers.

Cos i have to be the sensible one, its kind of like I am older, so we may as well be twins as brothers!

you are cool Fionn

from

Caoilte

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